chances are they'll know who this is... but whatever, I just think i need to slow things down with them.

I feel like I'm trying to take things to the max limit so quickly because I've finally found someone who's as seriously in it as I am.

and i don't want to risk losing them for any reason.

it may be hard to do, but tell them about it. say you think you should slow down. even if they think you're going at a decent speed for

the relationship, and you feel you're going to fast, if it feels uncomfortable for you tell them.

Don't rush into things, I've seen things like that end badly and with a lot of bitterness..

talk to them about setting a 'speed' for the relationship.. learn not to plan so far ahead. If you are both in it very seriously, and

marriage could one day be an option, then just leave that as an open possibility and take things on a shorter time scale.

but on the same vein you don't want to hold back to much and suffocate your own feelings. That will just make you unhappy.

Besides what makes you think they don't (or won't?) feel the same. Maybe they are just a bit slower than you.

but I agree with Josh, if you feel like you're going so fast that you're just going to crash and burn, then slow down. Just try to be calm

and take it at a speed that is comfortable to you.

^ what she said. try to get a good feel of where they're at mentally and go more their pace. maybe them being slower than you is a good

thing.

if you think you're taking things too fast then maybe their slower pace is a good baseline for things.

yes, then you can... even out