point those frustrating things out to him?

can't fix what you don't know is wrong.

he and I are going to have a conversation about the big one very soon. otherwise he knows but it's kinda just how he is..and that's okay

what is the 'big one'?

if they are things he can fix?

curious as well.

some of them he's not willing to do at the moment

isn't sure he can fix all of them

not willing? any examples?

if he feels they're key parts of who he is?

if not, what makes him unwilling?

and if so, if you agree?