when you don't feel connected anymore?
Oh gosh.... I've been asking myself this... Seems like I've had to maintain some one-sided friendships....
well, I love my BFF from high school. But as we grow up and live apart, we have to compromise with the lack of contacts
Still, they have a special place in my heart
Yes.... But it's sad when we can't talk about the same topics like we used to.....
yeah, but if they really friends by heart, you'll work things out
Actually it's sad when I find some of our fundamental values changed.... It's bothering me a lot lately.....
fundamental values? such as?
I feel ya, Zoey. I'm feeling a lot of one-sided-ness...
But like Mitra said, I feel like they'll always have a special place in my heart. It's just tough and sad when things fizzle out.
Especially after you feel like you've been through a lot together.
riyuu like how we view life, our life goals, politics etc
Yeah, even now when I talk to my elementary school friends I feel a lot closer.... Even tho we may disagree on certain things now lol
ah...I've been kinda neutral on politics so I can go with any flow, as long as there's justice
As for life goals, basically we want to be happy. So, it doesn't really matter on which road we will take. That's kinda me and my BFF does
Ic... I guess it doesn't help that I used to be very liberal and recently I became Christian which is against....many things....
riyuu that's awesome! But sometimes I think my friend is too wasteful or something.... And she prob thinks I'm too frugal O_O
Christianity is about liberation. at least that's what I think. It doesn't limit you. It's just put things in perspective
Well, everyone has their own spiritual journey. some have fast pace, others take things slow
Lol ok.... But I really want to say that I don't really care if gays want to marry or not but the bible says 1 woman 1 man......
Ah, I have mixed feeling about that. I have gay friends and as a human I support them.
But as a Christian, I don't agree with the orientation. and..kinda anatomically incompatible :3
but in the end, it's their own decision on how to live their live. I can only love them as a friend.
Oh you are Christian too? Yeah technically I believe love can exist anywhere.... But .... Yeah....
And of course as a Christian I would like my friends to believe too..... But it's hard
I used to pray for my friends too. But...lets just say perseverance and me is not a good combi for now lol
in the end, I kinda lets things flow. 'Coz personally I believe action speaks louder than words
So, I won't preach much. All I can do is share the love.
and yeah, i need to get back to the praying bandwagon soon too. My mom situation is kinda a wake up call for me.
Yes.... You are right about sharing the love..... And I will pray for you too
Yes.... You are right about sharing the love..... And I will pray for you too
Thank you