Kyorami
13 years ago
How do you know when a friendship is dead?
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RiyuuWaIranai
13 years ago
when you don't feel connected anymore?
gimirzz
13 years ago
Oh gosh.... I've been asking myself this... Seems like I've had to maintain some one-sided friendships....
RiyuuWaIranai
13 years ago
well, I love my BFF from high school. But as we grow up and live apart, we have to compromise with the lack of contacts
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RiyuuWaIranai
13 years ago
Still, they have a special place in my heart
gimirzz
13 years ago
Yes.... But it's sad when we can't talk about the same topics like we used to.....
RiyuuWaIranai
13 years ago
yeah, but if they really friends by heart, you'll work things out
gimirzz
13 years ago
Actually it's sad when I find some of our fundamental values changed.... It's bothering me a lot lately.....
RiyuuWaIranai
13 years ago
fundamental values? such as?
Kyorami
13 years ago
I feel ya, Zoey. I'm feeling a lot of one-sided-ness...
Kyorami
13 years ago
But like Mitra said, I feel like they'll always have a special place in my heart. It's just tough and sad when things fizzle out.
Kyorami
13 years ago
Especially after you feel like you've been through a lot together.
gimirzz
13 years ago
riyuu like how we view life, our life goals, politics etc
gimirzz
13 years ago
Yeah, even now when I talk to my elementary school friends I feel a lot closer.... Even tho we may disagree on certain things now lol
RiyuuWaIranai
13 years ago
ah...I've been kinda neutral on politics so I can go with any flow, as long as there's justice :-P
RiyuuWaIranai
13 years ago
As for life goals, basically we want to be happy. So, it doesn't really matter on which road we will take. That's kinda me and my BFF does
gimirzz
13 years ago
Ic... I guess it doesn't help that I used to be very liberal and recently I became Christian which is against....many things....
gimirzz
13 years ago
riyuu that's awesome! But sometimes I think my friend is too wasteful or something.... And she prob thinks I'm too frugal O_O
RiyuuWaIranai
13 years ago
Christianity is about liberation. at least that's what I think. It doesn't limit you. It's just put things in perspective
RiyuuWaIranai
13 years ago
Well, everyone has their own spiritual journey. some have fast pace, others take things slow
RiyuuWaIranai
13 years ago
I'm on the slow one
gimirzz
13 years ago
Lol ok.... But I really want to say that I don't really care if gays want to marry or not but the bible says 1 woman 1 man......
RiyuuWaIranai
13 years ago
Ah, I have mixed feeling about that. I have gay friends and as a human I support them.
RiyuuWaIranai
13 years ago
But as a Christian, I don't agree with the orientation. and..kinda anatomically incompatible :3
RiyuuWaIranai
13 years ago
but in the end, it's their own decision on how to live their live. I can only love them as a friend.
gimirzz
13 years ago
Oh you are Christian too? Yeah technically I believe love can exist anywhere.... But .... Yeah....
gimirzz
13 years ago
And of course as a Christian I would like my friends to believe too..... But it's hard
RiyuuWaIranai
13 years ago
I used to pray for my friends too. But...lets just say perseverance and me is not a good combi for now lol
RiyuuWaIranai
13 years ago
in the end, I kinda lets things flow. 'Coz personally I believe action speaks louder than words
RiyuuWaIranai
13 years ago
So, I won't preach much. All I can do is share the love.
RiyuuWaIranai
13 years ago
and yeah, i need to get back to the praying bandwagon soon too. My mom situation is kinda a wake up call for me.
gimirzz
13 years ago
Yes.... You are right about sharing the love..... And I will pray for you too :-)
gimirzz
13 years ago
Yes.... You are right about sharing the love..... And I will pray for you too :-)
RiyuuWaIranai
13 years ago
Thank you :-)
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