Or does he have to acknowledge it and embrace it because it is part of his personality?

it depends. if acknowledging it will make it less dangerous, i definitely would say that's better. otherwise...

noona~~ My life resembles too much with boys before flowers TT.TT and I'm Geum jan di... TT.TT Im so confused...

and sorry that I have to throw this on the internet... and make you concerned.. Which you don't have to be.

it's okay. really. if you need to get it off your chest, i will listen. <3

Thank you I will send it someday.. <3