Ai no Senshi
13 years ago
I think I understand it already. Why bothering on investing in friendship and drama in LJ and others when Tumblr provides easy friendships?
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Ai no Senshi
13 years ago
Just get a bunch of followers and they'll shower you with love ~
Ai no Senshi
13 years ago
...that seems to be the new mindset, lmao
Victor☆Katsuki
13 years ago
Yeah, I've picked that up as well. Followers on tumblr = magical friendship! Why would anyone bother with LJ after such an easy way?
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Ai no Senshi
13 years ago
Yeeeah. I'm admittedly bitter since most of my friends in LJ seem to care more and invest more in their followers than in friends elsewhere
Ai no Senshi
13 years ago
But...I guess that's more comfortable and easier for most people. And also, less drama.
Victor☆Katsuki
13 years ago
Yeah, I'll admit I have some bitterness towards friends who have flounced to tumblr as well. I just wish friendships meant more to people
Ai no Senshi
13 years ago
I just wish people were willing to put a little bit of effort. But apparently real friendships demand too much of an effort...
Shinobu🦋Kocho
13 years ago
I'll be honest, I'm only on tumblr for the pretty pictures.
Shinobu🦋Kocho
13 years ago
but lord, otherwise it's so... confusing
Shinobu🦋Kocho
13 years ago
and hard to follow sometimes
Shinobu🦋Kocho
13 years ago
and it's also full of wank at times
Shinobu🦋Kocho
13 years ago
still (cozy) for you
Ai no Senshi
13 years ago
I've heard so; fortunately for me, little wank comes my way.
Ai no Senshi
13 years ago
For the most part, tumblr is for me only pretty pics, and keeping in touch with those I already know from LJ
Ai no Senshi
13 years ago
I don't see the shining thing about followers >>
homo superior
13 years ago
Most of my Tumblr friends I already knew.
homo superior
13 years ago
From LJ or otherwise. I'm mostly there for pictures
homo superior
13 years ago
I've met some nice people there, but it's not good for getting to know people and I would like to get to know them better, but yeah
homo superior
13 years ago
Some people who are obsessed with followers, however...(unsure)
Ai no Senshi
13 years ago
Yeah, it's not good for getting to know people. But that doesn't seem to be a problem for everybody; more like, the contrary...
Victor☆Katsuki
13 years ago
It's sad how many people these days put attention/# of followers over genuine friendship. :/
Ai no Senshi
13 years ago
When you see how much some people invest on followers, I wonder; do I have to talk to this person through tumblr to have its attention? xD
homo superior
13 years ago
Some people are like that with LJ friends, though (unsure) More people=/=forming good friendships
homo superior
13 years ago
In general
homo superior
13 years ago
Like, I like meeting people but I don't do it for the sake of...having people around
Ai no Senshi
13 years ago
But what bugs me is that...some people /really/ seem more comfortable talking through tumblr rather than any other place
Ai no Senshi
13 years ago
And that leaves me like /whut/...
Victor☆Katsuki
13 years ago
Yeah same. Tumblr's format is just not good for having long friendship-forming conversations.
homo superior
13 years ago
Yeah. There are some people on there I would gladly give contact info to because they seem awesome, but it's hard to get close to people on
homo superior
13 years ago
a site primarily for spamming pictures
Ai no Senshi
13 years ago
Tumblr's format doesn't really work for that, indeed. But I don't know /sigh/ seems that's exactly what some people want.
Ai no Senshi
13 years ago
Not forming long-friendships, but short-timed relationships that don't take that much effort.
Ai no Senshi
13 years ago
I guess it's...disappointing to realize that some of your LJ friends don't feel exactly comfortable with putting some effort on friendship.
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