trys to make it work, but i think the question is are you happy

I would offer to let them go to find out how they felt

No sissy, staying with you is the only thing that could make me happy. I love you.

I saw this on someone else's plurk and not sure if it'll help you but thought sharing was worth a try

It isn't what you have, or who you are, or where you are, or what you are doing that makes you happy or unhappy. It is what you think about.

thanks everyone

I'm supposed to be heading to bed with my baby, but I wanted to respond first. I've been trying to word my thoughts, but it's taking a while

If everything is what we think, then everything would be right in the world. Thinking is different from 'being'. To be happy, one does

not think, one is. And that state of being, uncertain to the other party, can be known through honesty. Be honest with your hearts

on both ends. Make a decision based on known happiness, not on assumed happiness.

that is all =) goodnight

i think you shouldnt decide for someone else, but let that someone else decide for him or herself

Gandhi has spoken!

LOL @ my son in law

nd thanks everyone