scarf?

Depends

on what?

oh 'depends' haha NOT!

something small and precious that she doesn't have to do anything with. A book of photos of her favourite place (if her sight is OK)??

I'd say a monthly massage. My 85 year old friend Betty gets real relief from a monthly massage. I bet it wouldn't be too hard to set up

Betty found someone who goes to the senior center. If you check, there might be someone who's already doing it

massage is a fantastic idea, ClaudiaHallChristian

a pedicure might be a treat too - my gg loves to get them because she can't do that "maintenance" item herself

life support but know you nan i doubt very much she will need it however you on the other hand!!!!!

....that should read "knowing your"

i say scarf