it's just be evil to decline. You'd be breaking hearts.

I have a long list of "waiting to confirm" too. Wait a week or so, if they don't confirm you then just cancel your invitation.

justinzero it says that I'm waiting for you to confirm..though you have, haven't you? Such plurkiness

I have confirmed.

something weird happened yesterday when a friend added me, and I added her before seeing the alert. I accepted one, canceled another.

radioactive now, maybe?