if there were parts of the old you that you found tedious or hard to stick to, dump them. Be fresh, lively, quirky, interesting,

but at the same time deeply clever. Regardless if that is the way you feel, after a while it would work.

Either that, or just absolutley do what you feel most suits you.

and if that is the way you already were, then why change?

I am trying to be a bit general here, I am not exactly sure waht self you mean... and only in SL would that be an issue

Marry me?

walk a mile in "Stepford footsteps" just long enough to run screaming back to your authentic self!