doesn't like feeling like she's having to nag and be the bad guy instead of the girlfriend...why are you with me if you constantly complain?
MaryC+
asks
something wrong with you and Tony?
Elle_A
says
i'm just annoyed that he gets offended when i don't get that he's joking, when i don't even know half the time and he makes me feel bad
Elle_A
says
he's so serious sometimes when he jokes and i can;t tell if he's joking or not, and i don't look like how it makes me look a bitch
MaryC+
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oh my gosh, I've been through that before, but with my ex best friend. It's like they don't get to stop being so serious and joking at the
MaryC+
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same time 'cause we don't know what to think. Needless to say I'm not friends with him anymore.
Elle_A
says
i don't want that to happen with tony and i. he needs to realize he can't joke about everything all the time
Elle_A
says
because there will be that one time he wants me to take him seriously and i won't because everything is a joke to him
MaryC+
says
exactly, he needs to joke whenever it's time to joke or else you'll get all confused. I know exactly what you're talking about.
MaryC+
says
you just gotta talk to him about that, and tell him that if he doesn't stop doing that, that you'll take everything he says as a joke.