G won't talk about it, I can see he is upset but don't know if I should push him or just leave him alone. makes me upset to see him upset

oh no, so sorry to hear that. My thoughts are with you guys

my advice is jut to let him know you are there if he wants to talk, but I wouldnt push him.

Oh, I'm so sorry for your hubby and your family. I would just let him talk when he is ready

Ask him once if he needs to talk, let him know you are always ready to listen--sometimes men process thins differently than we do

thanks guys,