^^^^ I'm so sorry too I wish you didn't have to figure out how to survive around your p@r3nt's mid life crises it's so unfair that they make you feel so insignificant while their wants and needs are literally uprooting your whole life and you're expected to say and do nothing about it I hate that
thank you it's more of a retirement plan for them but yeah It's kinda darkly funny because my dad said "I was thinking about how we're spending all this money on ourselves when there are so much less privileged people in the world" and in my head I was like "yeah like Future Me and the inheritance I'm not getting"
Lee,I really really want to tell you that you're very significant and important and they shouldn't be treating you as "something to maybe consider", honestly even less than that,you should be a priority