anxiously awaiting the day when my abandonment issues stop being issues (that day will not come without therapy which i am working on but still)
cyrus has not responded to me in three/sorta-two days and even though they literally made fanart for me, i'm immediately like "well I guess we are not friends any longer, it was nice while it lasted"
again stressing that this person spent two and a half hours bringing something i wrote to life like logic says "they're in college/spending winter break with their family, they're busy" and abandonment issues reply "They Would Rather Not Speak To Me Anymore"
I'm sorry your brain is being mean to you 😔 do you want to hear what my therapist told me when I too could not see my friends not interacting with me without thinking they were trying to distance themselves?
oh uh this was less wise and more a "I'm gonna be brutally honest with you and it's gonna metaphorically smack some sense into you" she told me "why do you think this has to be about you?"
Which was an appeal to the part of me that had been raised never to make anything about me and yet despite this I've been learning I'm a very egocentric person and a huge way that manifests is assuming other people's actions are secretly about me and they're not
for ppl like us who have been deprived of attention, we tend to project it where it is not there I can't tell you with confidence that Cyrus is not intentionally ghosting you, I've never met this person but I can say that assuming Cyrus is intentionally ghosting you is assuming the worst of your friend