[in-laws] Well, Sergio told his mom that we didn't want to see her for Thanksgiving or my birthday. I feel major guilt vibes but I'm also like "that's your mom. If I say shit to her it's going to be a lot angrier than I mean".
and I don't know why I feel like shit but I'd also feel way worse if they showed up??
so IDK
first of all, good. proud of him. second, my therapist says "things that are good for you don't always feel good"
because we're not programmed for it
guilt is natural but don't let that drive your choices
definitely. That's a good way of putting
*putting it
Good for both of you! I'm so glad you guys are there for each other with this kind of shit, and that you're taking care of yourselves and each other <3
Good. Keeping yourselves safe is very important 