CONFESSION --- is it normal for dads to physically push you out of the way and purposely instill fear because "That's the only way you'll listen" and constantly yell and grab you by the neck? He also says a bunch of hurtful shit and is super inconsiderate and one timehe even grabbed me by my neck and threw me against the doorframe because I "talked back"
WTF no. That is a group of several red flags waving right there to get your attention that you're living with an abusive parent. If you are reading this, OP, please realize that this is NOT normal and NOT okay at all. I hope you find a way to get out of there.