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同学提问:“我认为这个世界很假、虚伪、黑暗,我经常感受到失望”_哔哩哔哩_bilibili0:43 他對這個世界的感受,對他而言一定是真實的。但那其實只是所有真實中的一個面而已
1:44 我們的生命中既有真實也有虛假,但為什麼注意力一直停留在''虛假、黑暗、虛偽''這些層面上呢? 為什麼會更多的注意到這些部份?
因為對身邊的人的愛、付出、幫助,沒有真正的感恩,甚至認為是理所當然,不珍惜時有再多的真實都是看不見的(會有個盲區) ,沒有真正去接受這份世界對你的愛。那內在就會是空虛 恐懼 憤怒的。 視角會不自覺的傾向於黑暗 虛假..等部分。
不接受虛假 不需受黑暗,你認為那是不好的/壞的,但事實上就算是''假的''也有一些有趣的、有意義的部份。(Ex:遊戲) 完整的體驗可以讓你學到很多、更加珍惜生命中的愛.給予
當你抗拒虛假的時候,那份抗拒會讓你陷入黑暗中無法自拔,試著去接受難受 失望 虛假,你的內在就開始進入假假真真、不真不假的狀態,你就能開始真正的成長
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LEP - Learn English Podcast
這個頻道我也可以試著聽 (先前聽了另個頻道,討論''你想長生嗎?''的話題,雖然有字幕我還是很懵,生字的數量多到我得破譯...不懂意思的話聽起來也沒意思了,代表我應該找適合我等級的內容來聽) / 這個頻道是主持人一男一女的對話,語速慢而且用的字比較日常 簡單些,(雖然還是會有生字但不會太影響理解內容) / 這個頻道很特別的是,一部影片大約會分成3個部份,在每部份兩人對話結束後,會有個介紹生詞的環節,除了做英英解釋之外,也會附上剛才提到的內容做為例句
而且就算一開始很有衝勁,但不代表永遠都是最佳狀態,這也會影響學習進度和效果,所以還是沒辦法給任何能夠參考的數字。做為一個老師,Conner並不想隨意地給出一個隨機數字,就算學生會因此有數字可依循,但會有種''只要過了X年,我就能學完英文''的錯覺。但其實學習語言是一輩子的事,如果久沒使用,還是會漸漸遺忘的。所以如果沒有死線和非不得已的原因,何不好好享受學習過程中帶來的樂趣
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新發現的頻道! ''Learning English with Podcast Conversation''
很活潑有趣的對話而且劇情中的男子聲音很辣(草
我聽的是elementary level初級/基礎
podcast的順序大概是:主持人(男&女各一人)開場大綱 / 劇情 / 解說劇情對話中使用到的片語等(並附上其他情境例句) / 再聽一遍劇情 / 複習剛才提過的片語並補充相關詞彙
HOW TO IMPROVE YOUR ENGLISH SKILLS | 7 TIPS29:28 ''嘿你們還在呀'' / 笑死哈哈哈哈哈她太可愛了!! 好喜歡好活潑
大概的方法就是那些:看看英文電影、節目、文章、小說,聽聽podcast,和母語者或同為學習者的人、朋友用英文聊天(或是對著鏡子自言自語) / 用英文寫日記,寫今天最印象深刻的事、寫最開心的事、早餐吃什麼?、打算做什麼? 總之各種事情都可以~.
早中晚各寫下一個在不同地方看見的生字(文章?電視劇?或是其他)
31:21 好暖的人!!!!! / 對方意料外的''Do you mind eating with me?''
Everything Is Going to Be Okay |💖 To your inner chil...合集
分兩三天慢慢聽
48:27 / 49:34 不是一昧追尋事物/希望他人改變,而是專注讓自己進步/成長
54:08 和上面提到的差不多,就是別''期望''事情的發展,而是專注在自身的計畫和目標上,因為很多事情是不會照計畫進行的。
目標制定ex:多吃蔬菜/每天散散步
請儘量不要設定過於嚴格的目標,因為這會帶來不必要的壓力。專注於自己的意圖,做出小而容易的改變,並享受過程,而不必為了確切的結果感到焦慮。不要期望別人以某種方式行事,而是專注於對自己友善、支持他人,並忠於自己。
總結來說,「我不追求,我吸引」不僅僅是一句話,它是一種帶來平靜與自信的生活方式。當你停止追逐,開始專注於自己的成長,積極的事物就會自然而然地出現在你面前。不論是機會、人物或經歷,當時機成熟,你所需要的一切都會找到你。所以,放手,相信過程,並專注於成為最好的自己。其他的會隨之而來。
上面那2段的原文:
55:00 Try not to set strict goals. Like I must lose 5 kilos in a month. Which can add unnecessary pressure. By focusing in your intentions, you make small, easy changes and enjoy the process without stressing about exact results. Don't expect others to act a certain way, instead focus on being kind, supportive, and true to yourself.
55:37 To sum up ''I don't chase, I attract'' is more than just a phrase, it's a way of living that brings peace and confidence. When you stop chasing and start focusing on your own growth, positive things will naturally come your way.
Whether it's opportunities, people, or experiences, what you need will find you when the time is right. So, let go, trust the process, and focus on becoming the best version of yourself. The rest will follow.
英文是國際共同語言/旅行和找工作都很有好處/很多資源 素材都是英文的,所以會英文也能得到更多幫助/ 也能在一點點的進步中增強自信心
學習一個新語言是場journey,在過程中感到快樂及有趣,看喜歡的節目的英文版/聽英文歌/和講英文的朋友聊天,讓它成為一種日常
Leo: Yes, and when we focus too much on what others have achieved, we forget to work on our own progress. It’s like being in a race, but you’re always watching others instead of focusing on yourself. I also talk about comparison, but it’s about looking back at how you've been comparing yourself over time.
Leo: One good way is to focus on your own progress. Even small steps are important. Gwen, how can our listeners see their progress?
Gwen: Well, Leo, you can look back at where you started. For example, if you’re learning English, think about how much better you are now than a few months ago. Maybe before, you couldn’t understand English movies, but now you can understand some words. That’s progress!
將你的進展可視化的方法
Leo: A good way to see your progress is to write it down. Keep a notebook. Each week, write one thing you did better. For example, “This week, I learned 10 new words,” or “I spoke English with my friends.”
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Gwen: That’s a great idea! You can also make a “success board.” Put notes or pictures of your achievements. This will help you see your progress.
Leo: Yes! Even small steps are still steps forward. Even if you feel slow, you’re still moving forward.
Gwen: Moreover, everyone moves at their own speed. It’s okay if you take longer to reach your goals than your friend.
Leo: Other people's successes don't take away from yours. There's enough success for everyone. Supporting others can also make you feel good and motivated. It's a win-win!
結論
會讓自己感覺好很多的方法
Leo: Now, let’s talk about something that can really help us feel better. It's accepting yourself. When you practice it, you can recognize that you are enough, just as you are. You don’t need to be perfect or like someone else to be valuable.
Gwen: A great way to practice it is through taking a few moments each day to focus on your breathing. This can help you let go of negative feelings and focus on the present.
Leo: Yes! Studies show that it can reduce stress and improve mental health. When you accept yourself, you stop comparing and feel happier. So remember, you don’t have to be like anyone else. You are enough, and your journey is unique.
大概就是茶的起源、在不同地區的飲用習慣和變化(用除了茶葉以外的植物來泡 / 或是添加花及香料、牛奶等 )、茶包的出現、波士頓茶葉事件
語速慢+教材感較強,主要就是語音+英文文字,沒有額外的生字片語環節。
同個主題會分成初階和進階版(內容完全一樣,只是差在語速不同。以茶的這篇的時長為例,初階14:16,進階10:05。除非本身就對歷史感興趣,不然很難有耐心聽完...)
後半段聊了Connor認為自己有天賦/沒天賦的各3件事情
有天賦的是寫論文/寫作,對他人感受較敏銳/善於讀空氣,羽球/乒乓球之類的球類運動
沒天賦的是藝術創作、料理、長距離運動(跑步游泳等等)
*聽到這才認識到原來讀空氣也可以算是天賦! 因為不是每個人都能做到