Do I need to change myself na?
I have this personality na maglend ng hand or laging nagtuturo sa mga taong need ng help. But recently, yung mga taong natutulungan ko either ayaw nila or sometimes napapasama pa ko HAHA 🥲
Do I need to stop helping na? And focus na lang sa sarili? Should I begin to become selfish and nonchalant na?
I have this personality na maglend ng hand or laging nagtuturo sa mga taong need ng help. But recently, yung mga taong natutulungan ko either ayaw nila or sometimes napapasama pa ko HAHA 🥲
Do I need to stop helping na? And focus na lang sa sarili? Should I begin to become selfish and nonchalant na?
Maybe help if they ask, if not wag n lng muna. You can also offer to help them (private convo) before doing it just to be safe. 
Some people kc akala minamaliit sila pag nag-offer ka ng help even if wlang gnun s intention m.
Some people kc akala minamaliit sila pag nag-offer ka ng help even if wlang gnun s intention m.
oh my friend. i relate to this so much 🥲
minsan pa nauunahan ng enthusiasm tumulong.
hay...
minsan pa nauunahan ng enthusiasm tumulong.
hay...
help only those who really need the help and want to be helped. most kasi hindi ganito. usually mga ingrata/ungrateful. 
nakakarelate ako dito 🫠
i honestly just stopped giving a f—. lalo kung ako pa nalalagay sa alanganin o kaya mapapasama pa. heck no. not at my expense. ang harsh man pero ang dami kasi abusado 
madugongmaria: gusto mo lng maging masaya sila o kaya mabawasan yung stress nila, ikaw pa dehado haha
go_beyond_deep: hugs beh. ako na lang tulungan mo, magiging thankful pa ko hahaha jk
AiaLijauco: kaya nga. makakaya ko naman gawin to, natatakot lng din may masabi yung iba. pero totoo beh, sakit sa puso hahahaha
ikakiel: oo nga e, ung iba iisipin pa mayabang ka just because you offered to help. Parang mapapa-ngeh ka n lng pero wla eh gnun tlga mag-isip ibang tao for some reason.
Agree ako sa sinabi nila, only help those who asked for it. If they turned out to be ungrateful or envious, never help them again even if they beg for it. Just keep to yourself always.