queer is pretty good tho considering i definitely am bi? in some fashion?????? i very rarely feel sexual attraction and i am definitely not sex repulsed [eyebrow waggling at my gf] but but the AAA joke is funny to me. i know How and i have Been sexually attracted it's just rare

and i think obligatory sex scenes in media / how prevelent sex is in society is dumb

dumb question I feel I can actually ask. WHAT does [NCOD] mean

national coming out day

OOOOOH

don't worry i had to ask my gf earlier lol

and by earlier i mean. ten minutes ago

thank you so much I was wondering ALL day

HELP

this was the first time i've checked plurk today LMAO

🤝 on learning thingas

EYOOO

HIGH FIVES

also listen you experience sexual/romantic attraction so rarely it's basically a rounding error

YEAH LOL

if i experience it 0.01% of the time that's basically 0

rarsneezes: agreeeeeeed

i think i equated it before to like. if my sexual attraction is on a scale of 0-100 i'm like 5% attracted to guys and 10% attracted to girls and 85% of hte time it just is not on so. close enough to the grey ace scale or whatever

the first plurk I saw about it actually spelled out 'national coming out day' so when I saw 'ncod' I was like oh okay lmao

oh smart

well. you guys get my other funny being pendantic about it later i gotta go do groceryesi

damn whos gonna tell ur gf

and yeah I'm similar on the % like. if I'm attracted to 1% of women and .0001% of men that is. a rounding error of a sexuality

rounding error is cracking me up

Yakule: are u kidding. do u kno how flattering it is to be the exception

oh THATS what ncod means

Yakule: romance is silly and i don't know if i know what i'm feeling is romantic but aera is the most importnat person in my life so like close enough

slajdk sexuality rounding error. MOOD

anyway me being pendantic is just im tired of aro and ace being conflated as the same thing and that's part of why i distance myself from the ace community.... the being ace matters to me less than the being aro which is mostly just [me waving flag angrily at fiction] Stop HalfAssing It Because There Must Be Romance, Fuck You,

my further thoughts are silly: i think the agender flag is best, i prefer being called trans than nonbinary also because i think the trans flag is better than the nonbinary flag (RE: MY PERSONAL PREFERENCES AND AESTHETICS)

also bonus new thought: i guess i'd prefer to present as masc/butch, you know? you know.

🥺🥺🥺

also u DO crush butch looks. we gotta find u some more Really Gender pieces

YEAH!!!!!!!! WE G OTTA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

last silly thought: if i had to pick One Label i'd just say queer and call it a day. it's a good word lads

i'm never done talking. i wanna share my funny anecdote that i only tacked on agender onto my Labels bc i wannted to commit to the AAA joke and then. like 5 years later. agender is the label i feeel the strongest connection to. lmao.

I appreciate this it's very funny

hi5 for AAA joke

honestly i wish i could commit with y'all it's very funny and you guys are so powerful for it

snakesnakewhale: HI5!

also i can't tell the normies that my gender is "dragon" they just won't get it --

dragon gender is so real. a good one

dragon is a great gender

Mood but I can’t tell the normies my gender is rosebush

rosebriar: ROSEBUSH GENDER.... OF COURSE

Genuinely my gender was “rose golem” before my name was rose

my can't tell the normies gender is fire so we have one hell of an adventuring party here

Hell yeah