whole ass forgot i made this plurk intending to come back and elaborate when the edible wasn't hitting me so hard JNFNSMGSG but yeah when i first announced it to my main group chat it was actually in response to a meme
it feels goofy that it never rly occurred to me before but i just hadn't thought about it. i never vibed with they/them (though i don't mind it) so i was just like Well I Must Be Default Gender™️