i have had some fun times grappling with the fact that i am defined by what i am not

i still call myself enby but i am not sure that's really accurate, i just look at gender and go 'get that away from me'

you are you

also what is ncod?

I've probably said this before, but back in edensphere, you were one of my introductions to asexuality, so thank you for that. it was enlightening to learn oh, I can just be a neutral/nothing sexuality and find that fit

national coming out day

penbee: i am very glad i was able to help!

ohhh

I think NB still fits right? Like it's saying I'm not one of the two options I've been given but some third thing. Don't have to define the third thing right?

true! i'll just keep to NB for now then haha