1. he admitted to harassing his ex (soggyu) by emailing their personal email after being blocked on everything. the reason for this was because he believes a greencard was promised to him and while it is important, it was never owed like he believed it was and took the blocking as a personal attack that he wouldn't be allowed a greencard

- he is still able to get into the USA via other means, instead he focuses his energy on trying to call soggyu out for being horrible for taking the opportunity of a greencard away after breaking up with them. (they did not do this, as it is a complicated process anyways. he was expecting marriage out of them in order to leave his current home.)

2. he believed many times that soggyu was cheating on him. this is not true, as soggy rejected and made fun of everyone who tried to take interest in them. him being uncomfortable with them mocking them is in my opinion pure insecurity that he projected onto them.

- he also said once that he expected soggyu to make an onlyfans due to this type of "belief" he had that they only wanted attention for their body and that they sent teasinf images of themself to him. no screenshot is obtainable of this, but he does hold beliefs similar to this either way

3. jay denies the "beaware" account to be harassment though it is quite literally that. he can call it awareness and such but it is promoting hatred and defemation of soggyu without any solid proof.

- he denies that sending emails to their personal email is harassment after being blocked on everything but sees people spamming and shitposting on his comments for how ridiculous he is for staying here as harassment instead.

4. taking this moment, everyone reading this should be able to understand there were many moments where manipulation was used by jay, and either he refuses to acknowledge that, doesn't realize it or is aware and denies it doesn't make his manipulation any less real.

- on one account, the first isntance of being obsessed with soggyu is by messaging their brother and basically trying to convince him they're a bad person. (they are siblings. i'm sure you can see why he would be insane to even try to convince them of this)

- another account is by calling everyone who was friends with soggyu as horrible because they chose their side instead of his. this is because during the relationship he had a tendency to isolate soggyu and also himself so that he didn't even have many friends by the end of it.

- over and over he has many manipulative tactics that he's used onto people to try and convince people that soggy is bad or that they took everything from him. they didn't btw. he's a grown adult with the capability to take time for himself and learn to get through life and get greencard and stop projecting onto others

Anyways, there's much other things that can be said about him. he has said many horrible things and yes there is proof of those things and of instances of him trying to manipulate people into being on his side. All I can do is hope he is actually telling the truth and getting therapy.

He needs professional help from people that know what they're doing instead of people on Plurk of all places. He has the quotev cancelgrind mindset and it is horrible that nothing here will actually suffice him. He has no condemtion for himself and wants harm to be done to others.

Soggyu apologizing did nothing for him, and him believing he has to resort to showing actual self harm is dangerous for him. Honestly I recommend to stop interacting with but I can't stop those people and him posting all of it publicly instead of handling his feelings privately shows he has no idea what he's doing

So yeah. Sorry Jay but you need to work on yourself off of here.

hey I just wanted to add HELLO i am soggyus bro if you have ANY QUESTIONS please feel free to ask i wont beable to answer all of them