and they give you a long list of words describing the thing rather than narrowing down on what is most important and giving a short and concise description on that thing

I guarantee most people cannot summarize

that's just unfortunate

it's like I just want a short description of this thing and you've given me a long beat-by-beat paragraph that isn't as helpful as you think it is

Much in the way I ask a yes or no question and i get a longwinded response that doesn't actually answer my question....