I’ve seen some improvements in terms of more men influencers speaking up for what’s discussed especially toward women or children, but I’m very impatient and wanting to witness more.

I’m very disappointed & fed up whenever these respectable men speaking up for women, often they are being called “pick me”.

And whenever women speaking up for another woman, she’d be called..you guessed it “the man hater”.

People should be allowed to call a behavior out without being accused. Seeing irrational & frankly immature comments really annoys me to the core, like we still got a long way to go!

I’ve always talked about with my hubby & my friend about how most people don’t know how to balance or differentiate between “minding my own business” VS “standing up against what’s concerning”.

There are many cases where situations are definitely looking very aggressive & suspicious, and it’s always too late before the victims already get harmed or died! All because many people are too caught up with the “I’m afraid that my judgement would be wrong”, well guess what?

It’s better to be wrong than it’s too late to even do
anything about it for the potential victims.

What if we were wrong? So what? Just practice self accountability. That’s what apologise is for! Admit that, say sorry and move forward. Let others judge us, we can’t control what they think as long as we know we’ve done our part as best as possible without regrets.

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