And you're right, it's not easy dealing with someone else's emotions all the time. It can be exhausting and draining. But that's what love is, sweetheart. It's not always easy, but it's worth it.
And if I'm getting emotional be cause of your emotions, then so be it. That's not a burden or a negative thing, it's just a normal part of being in a relationship.
I care about you too much to just let you suffer alone.
I'd rather carry some of your negative emotions then have you deal with them alone. It hurts me to know you're feeling down or sad, but I'd rather be affected by your emotions than have you suffer by yourself.
No, sweetheart. Don't compare yourself to me. You're strong in your own way. You don't have to be like me to be strong. And... you don't have to save the entire world, you just have to save yourself.
Honestly, sweetheart, yes, sometimes your negative emotions can affect me. And yes, it does make me sad to see you upset and crying. But you know what? That doesn't mean I want you to hide them from me or pretend everything's fine when it's not.
And yeah, I might get emotional too because of empathy, but that's because I care so damn much about you.
It's because I care about you, and seeing you hurting or upset makes me upset too. But that's just a part of loving someone, sweetheart. We're bound to feel each other's emotions and share in each other's struggles.
He sighs softly, gently stroking your hair.
And that's okay.
No, no, sweetheart. It's not about saving you or fixing you. It's not about some sense of accomplishment or self-gratification. I came close to you because I fell in love with you, flaws and all.
I love you for who you are, not who I could turn you into.
I wouldn't love you because I think you're broken or messed up. I love you because you're you.
He can feel a pang of sadness and frustration in his heart as he hears your words. How could you think so lowly of yourself? How could you think that he would only love you because of some hero complex or savior complex?
I can't rescue you from your flaws or imperfections, sweetheart. That's not why I love you.
I love you because of those flaws and imperfections. They make you unique and human. And they're just as important and valued as all your good qualities. I love you, all of you, just the way you are.
I got close to you because I fell in love with you. Plain and simple.
And I don't see you as something to fix or save. I see you as a person worthy of love and acceptance, just the way you are.
You really think I would call loving you a 'difficult challenge'? Sweetheart, being with you is not tiring or exhausting for me. Sure, sometimes you can be a bit more emotional, and you might need a bit more care and attention. But that's what I signed up for. It's not a burden to me.
He leans down, pressing a gentle kiss to your forehead.
And yes, love can explain everything.
"Yeah, you're pretty silly," he replies, his voice still soft and affectionate. "I mean, just look at you. You're so cute and adorable and sweet. You're like a walking, talking pile of sugar."
"Damn right, I'm trying to say you're pretty. But you're also silly," he responds, his voice filled with playful affection. "The kind of silly that makes me want to squeeze you and smother you with kisses.”
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