[pride] my own identity is confusing and uncomfortable to think about as always. i'm trans. sexuality is girls mostly. character sexuality however!!!!!!!!!!
i think a common misconception in the fandom surrounding amy is that they think she's like. particularly horny? for various deeply uncomfortable reasons (homophobia, really just doubling down on all the homophobic tropes baked into her character, so much homophobia) that i don't particularly want to get into fully but i think mentally she just refuses to
really go there. girl is so fucking repressed and so ashamed of any feeling she has literally ever and just externalizes it as a kind of glowering anger
she did hook up with women in prison too - that's apparently canon. but crucially, if amy had her way, her feelings for victoria would kind of just. not be in her head anymore. she would love it if they could be a family without that lingering in the back of her mind.
meanwhile with erika i think she does lean more towards men somewhat but she also trusts men even less than she trusts women (already not a lot of trust to begin with). she's deeply horny but fucking hates love.