I'm on discord under the same name, but with friend requests from unknown disabled for reasons, so you'll have to try through the Failbetter Games server or the Welcome to Night Vale one

will check in here occassionally

Hi! How've you been? Are you okay?

Hey friend, glad to hear from you! Hope you've been okay!

all good, just a mix of winter depression, apprenticeship mid-exams and a looot of family drama. and with a bunch of sigruds CR being dropped (no ones fault there) i just lost motivation

Very understandable. I hope things are better for you now!