maybe you're just nice, you think other people are nice, you think they're aware of what they're doing, you're hopeful, you're kind...

maybe i just think that people can change, that they are essentially good and decent,ect...

i dont know.....

but oh well, maybe its i who needs to change..

no, why should you change? If other peopel make you unhappy then that's them, if you're happy with yourself, then be yourself.

she accidentally went into LiveJournal mode for a second...

less caffeine

no you are right, and i think that for me to be happy with myself is to come to terms with the fact that i cannot make everyone better, or

their lives easier, but i CAN do that for myself...

ignore the Toltec mythology part - this may be helpful LOl www.bizsum.com/articles/...

k

I know how you feel. I was in a "relationship" that put me in a tailspin. I hate the psyh terms so-dependent, enabler, etc. sometimes being

nice is just plain being nice and believing in people is just faith.

cool. is it in book stores, maybe?

psyh=psych, I can't type at this cafe table

gotcha

psychology

oh geesh, co-dependent, too... LOL, yeah that book is in bookstores, but if you google it you can get the gist of it

i think maybe if i actually talked to some one objective once in a while about stuff, id be able to see more clearly

bet i could download it off torrentz.com

that's true and it is nice to have someone to talk to as long as you still trust yourself. Good or bad, it is all you

thank you, and i think maybe i do...

maybe you should make a LiveJournal LOL, sometimes bouncing ideas off oneself helps... but sometimes a beer is better

maybe the first, the second is too long a story for here

im sorry to break this off, but its later here than over there, i must be getting to bed, work tomorrow!

thank you for the help.

sure, see you later