its esp annoying since she gives me lots of 'secrets' to hold for her indef but I just needed like 2 weeks

if you have any useful dirt on her, you could always give her an object lesson in the value of keeping confidences.

I do and did have evil thoughts, but I CAN keep a secret so...guess I will.

it

oops. It's not really evil. You're just enforcing the golden rule. She did unto you...

hmmm, good point

the secret? no. The Guilt Craptasia that will result? yes.