And what if Cinderella prefers living with her mean sisters? Has anyone ever thought that they are not so happily ever after,

because they HAD to follow the rule, the rule dominates fairy tales and, unfortunately, the real world, too.

i think the most important thing is still being happy. However, we have a concern when we not obey the social rule

because our value is affected by the rule and we more or less care about how people see us.

As a result, we are not really happy sometimes even we do what we think it's ok

because we still worry people would judge us in a negative way

Oh. People's concern sucks!