I have to disagree. Not all designers are bitches... I've ran into some very nice/helpful ones!

Everyone I've asked for help has, at a minimum, been polite and they're generally pretty friendly. So, maybe it's you.

your question offensive, disrespectful or generally obnoxious?

fjuck off!

(Colbert Report reference)

hasn't met one bitchy designer yet, maybe you're just rude?

SL designers are overwhelmingly nice, hardworking, and polite

I haven't met any rude designers either. I'm guessing it's you.

can just repeat what has been said - never met a rude one