you should add quan as a friend, i think she would have an interesting answer

Here I come

不過話說成熟真正長什麼樣子..我也沒見過*攤手* 但我想，成熟的意義，應該是建築在願意負起自己生命的全責，並願意接受自己的不完美為基礎吧。

I agree!

i agree too !! 而且可以接受別人的不完美