so beh tahan both of u

waaa...very lovey duvey song to me...feels like i'm in love again..hahaha...

jus wondering, can 2 ppl get married without paktoring first? as in does love exist without paktoring?

lol, i guess the answer would be : Mail order bride OR arranged marraige

i think cannot liao in the modern days..is not like those old days anymore..

so u mean need to paktor b4 getting married? hmm

which marriage is plan by the parents..i dun believe in the phrase " kam cheng can be pui yong" after marriage

it does happen de....but seldom

better to paktor..then get to noe each other better ma..then oni married..

yaler..seldom lo..

'kam cheng can be pui yeong' is total bullshit i dun beliv in dat either...no love no marriage

well u dun marry sum1 u can live with..u marry sum1 u cant live without...

agree..thats y i say need to go paktoring le..

paktoring is d essential

nop, someone still think paktor is waste of time, they juz need to get married

woo..who's tat wor..thinking so weird de..

lol can said that not me, its a difficult world anyway

some will go for the one they loved, some will stay for the one who loved them

yup..agree..

thn its not true love...

u wanna be with the person u love but doesn't love u or love u but u doesn't love them?

if get to choose then both oso dunwan..

but if need to choose either one then i will choose the person who love me but i dun really love him de..

only selfish person will choose ths kind of relationship..

eh..dun say me like tat le..

khai oni give 2 option leh..hard to choose..thats y i say if can then both oso dun wan ma

misunderstand le..i say oni selfish person will stay in d 2 relationship mentioned by khai.

not say u selfish la leen

not really, someone which hurt really bad until he/she cannot love. what to do? they r not selfish, they loved so much b4

pening...aihz

time may heal any wounds..yes it may leave scars..but d scars reminds us not to make d same mistake again...

then the person is too chap cheok dy..must learn how to let go..it might be hard at first..but somehow sure can de..

diff ppl hv diff scar and recover period, sometime it is not a mistake, it just not suitable

agreed

the one i love she love me, but she dint stay coz she said she'll leave me.

nice poem?

if she'll leave u thn dats mean she dun love u enuff lo

cannot consider lidat...sumtimes u love a person too much and u need to let her go due to sum issues..

Someone love you, but think cannot gv you the best, so leave you.

sacrifice >.< so kam thung

is just like " the ring" story..suddenly think of him..*sigh*..

>.< dun so chap cheok le

i where got chap cheok..

suddenly he come across my mind nia ma..

good luck ..

soon,soon u'll forget