金銀財寶仍身外之物，生不帶來是死不帶去，為錢煩腦大可不必，「床頭金盡酒樽空，千金散盡返復來」，只要有效理財，順其自然即可。

That is not the life we wanted

i do too, but i try not let it get to me too much =)